In Her Own Words
About her
So… average height, looks and body. I try to keep it altogether with yoga, dog walking and the inevitable housework though I should probably up the intensity of all of those (especially the latter)!
When I'm done with the above I do love getting glammed up but in reality I spend most of my day schlepping around in leggings and uggs.
I appear to have an insouciant attitude to life but in reality I care a great deal; I just prefer to keep my thoughts and actions to myself and try to be light company. I love to laugh and have a great appreciation of the ridiculous and the whimsical but can’t bear slapstick preferring an irreverent risky humour. A straight face and double entendre is my own personal best delivery.
I have to own up to being quite flirtatious but very loyal; my friendships are longlasting and many a friend’s husband has been offered up for me to cry on, dance with or help with the myriad jobs I can't reach. I believe in fidelity but not possession, jealousy is stultifying.
Reading is my absolute favourite pastime, I have tsundokus on both my bedside tables, I also love - white burgundy, Art Deco (especially architecture) spicy food, sculpture (Lorenzo Quinn) and old fashioned roses. I love to travel and whilst not fluent in any other language throw myself enthusiastically into the smattering of phrases I can pull together, I find a smile goes a long way and lots of gesticulating!
I am a proficient cook and love eating out especially with people who like to share.
Musically my taste is eclectic, but my main love is definitely jazz. Recently I have spent (too) many Saturday nights having solo ‘red wine and crisps kitchen discos ‘ dancing to Bruno Mars at great volume, it's high time I hit Ronnie Scott's again. But when your man ‘gone done you wrong’ nobody lands it quite like a country singer.
Family and friends are all important, time spent with them is the main joy in my life.
About her ideal match
Looks are important but who can define what it is that makes chemistry between two people?
I appreciate someone who looks after themselves, dresses for the occasion and looks good in an old pair of jeans.
Things I don’t like - pomposity, arrogance, boorishness . I like someone who’s not falsely self deprecating but has a good sense of self worth and is therefore confident and quietly assertive . Someone who listens, is spontaneous and doesn't mind being demonstrative in public.
Humour, tenderness, curiosity and a love of language would make a great match.
Oh and sexiness!
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About her
Country of origin: |
New Zealand | |
Location: |
Caterham, Surrey, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Separated | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, living with me sometimes | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Several times a week | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Home maker | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 40 miles of postcode district RH8 (Oxted) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
48 - 60 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Any | ||
Education: |
Further education | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough | ||
Ethnicity: |
Any | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Irreverent |
Intelligence: |
Street Smart |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A social butterfly |
Personality traits: |
Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Moody; Optimistic; Outgoing; Outspoken; Philosophical; Realistic; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Charity; Chemistry; Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Hair style: |
Well-behaved |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Classical; Country & Western; Dance / Disco; Jazz; R&B / Soul |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers occasionally |
Books: |
Fiction; History |
TV habits: |
I watch television most days |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas; Movie Channels |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Black & White / Silent; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Mystery; Romance |
Interests: |
Board games; Card games; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Meditation; Music; Reading; Singing; The arts |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Hiking; Walking; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Doesn't matter |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I don't work |
Pastimes of choice: |
Socialising with friends |
Time online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've got a sister |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Feelings about using Jazz FM Dating: |
Optimistic; Excited |
Honesty: |
Very |