In Her Own Words
About her
Plot twist: my name is not Susan! Although I do really like the film ‘Desperately Seeking Susan’. I like the 80s in general, except not really Thatcher, Chernobyl or fergie bows which are sadly having a revival.
I have one son but he’s grown now. I definitely don’t want more kids of my own but I sometimes think of fostering (emphasis on ‘think’). I love animals and am a serial cat ‘owner’. I say ‘owner’; they come and go as they please and I buy them everything they want. I would love dogs too but I’m at work all day. In my ideal life I’d be at home writing books and making quilts all day but there we go. I love really great literature although nothing very recent. I have a LOT of books and have thrown away almost all my possessions at different times - apart from my books. I absolutely love great theatre and used to go a lot when I lived in London. I do miss that although otherwise don’t like London! I’ve lived in a few places around the UK and could potentially relocate although I have just bought a house and have another one I’m trying to renovate with my son. Emphasis on trying - turns out I’m bad at this. I dreamed all my life of living on a boat and then bought one and almost immediately sold it (well, more like 2 years later) but it was fun while it lasted.
I really love Wiltshire and find the landscape really mysterious and potent. I don’t live there right now though.
I worry about the state of the world and impending apocalypse but try to tell myself that in a parallel dimension it’s like this only much better and I shouldn’t upset myself.
I do watch TV - lately obsessed with Rupaul’s drag race but this may only be a phase…
My photos: I very seldom take photos of myself and these are from the last few years, the most recent from last October. I haven’t aged badly although if I don’t sleep well I look as if someone has punched me in the face (a kind observer told me this recently).
Is this 20 words long?
About her ideal match
My ideal match! Should be somewhat amusing and irreverent. Able to talk about serious things and also silly things. Maybe a Gemini? He definitely shouldn’t believe in astrology. An honest and principled person, please. Someone who cares about things. Someone calm. Someone who could listen to Art Bell, Turandot, Radio 3 and Jazz FM. Someone who likes Wiltshire. I’m just saying random things now.
A Nice Guy.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Cardiff (Newport), Cardiff, Wales | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
50 | |
Star sign: |
Libra | |
Height: |
5' 5" (165cm) | |
Body type: |
Average | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Just online friends; Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Teaching / Education / Training | |
Income: |
Solvent | |
Ethnicity: |
Mixed | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 200 miles of postcode district NP16 (Chepstow) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
39 - 66 | ||
Star sign: |
Gemini; Libra; Capricorn; Aquarius | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 4" (194cm) | ||
Body type: |
Any | ||
Looks: |
Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Dark Blonde; Dark Brown; Black; Greying; Shaved | ||
Eye colour: |
Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Hazel | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me; Yes, living with me sometimes | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
University; Postgraduate | ||
Occupation: |
Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Political / Government; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Media; Consultancy / Design | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent; White/Caucasian; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Highbrow |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Personality traits: |
Funny; Independent; Intelligent |
Valued qualities: |
Compassion; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My pyjamas |
Favourite colour: |
Yellow |
Hair style: |
Long; Curly |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses only when reading |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Date activities: |
A music concert; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Classical; Folk; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Scottish |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
Fiction; History; Non-fiction |
TV programmes: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Dramas |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Art Films; Cult Classics; Independent |
Interests: |
Music; Reading; Sewing; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Not involved at all |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Take drugs: |
Not any more |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Never |
Dream home: |
Eco home in the countryside |
Politics: |
Left of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Finally writing that novel |
Feelings about using Jazz FM Dating: |
Hopeful; Embarrassed; Jaded |
Honesty: |
Extremely |