In Her Own Words
About her
My friends would describe me as loyal, thoughtful, and fun to be around, warm, down-to-earth, and a little witty, the kind of person who makes you feel comfortable and appreciated. I love soulful music like jazz, R&B, hip hop, and gospel, meaningful conversations, good food and wine, cultural events, travel, and quiet mornings filled with laughter or reflection. I enjoy live music, exploring art and museums, cooking, reading, walking in green spaces, and staying active with yoga or a run. For fun or to relax, I might unwind with a good book or playlist, catch up with friends, explore new cafes or restaurants, or enjoy a quiet evening at home with music and conversation. I see life as a journey of love, growth, and meaningful connections, striving to stay positive, grounded, and open-minded while appreciating the small joys and building a balanced, fulfilling future with someone ready for love and family
About her ideal match
My ideal match is loyal, honest, and emotionally mature, someone who values family and is ready to build a loving, lasting partnership. I’m drawn to men who are ambitious yet humble, respectful, humorous, and confident, with a zest for life and culture. A relationship works when there’s trust, open communication, shared values, and a sense of partnership — supporting each other’s dreams while enjoying life together. I’d love to share experiences like exploring live music, cultural events, travel, good food, and quiet moments at home filled with conversation, laughter, and connection. Deal breakers include dishonesty, drama, lack of ambition, or emotional unavailability. I want a partner who’s serious about love, life, and family, and ready to fully commit
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Ealing, London, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
39 | |
Star sign: |
Pisces | |
Height: |
5' 9" (175cm) | |
Body type: |
Curvaceous | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye colour: |
Brown | |
Relationship Status: |
Single | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship; Marriage | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Yes | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 20 miles of postcode district SE5 (London) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
35 - 55 | ||
Star sign: |
Taurus; Cancer; Scorpio; Capricorn | ||
Height: |
6' 2" (187cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single | ||
Have children: |
No | ||
Want children: |
Yes | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Black/African descent; Latino/Hispanic; Mixed; Black/Caribbean descent | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
A barfly |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Cautious; Confident; Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Outspoken; Philosophical; Quiet; Realistic; Shy; Wild |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Mercy; Patience; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
Some sensual satin lingerie |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Curly; It has its moods |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
Pierced ears |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Blues; Broadway / Theatrical; Classical; Gospel / Religious; Jazz; Opera; R&B / Soul; Rap / Hip Hop; Reggae |
Reading: |
I read books occasionally |
Books: |
Business; Fantasy; Religious; Sci-Fi; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I rarely watch television |
TV programmes: |
Cartoons; Comedy / Sit-coms; Cooking / Baking; Educational; Game shows; Movie Channels; Nature/Wildlife; News; Sci-Fi; Talk shows |
Movie frequency: |
Once or twice a month |
Movie preferences: |
Sci-Fi; War |
Interests: |
Board games; Business news; Card games; Collecting stamps, coins, etc.; Computer & video games; Computer programming; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Meditation; Music; Politics; Shopping; Singing; The arts; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
American Football; Athletics; Badminton; Basketball; Birdwatching; Chess; Fishing; Golf; Snorkeling; Swimming; Water Polo; Water skiing; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Chinese; Fast food; Fine Dining; Pub Grub; Seafood; Thai |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a week |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Gluten-free; Other |
Pace of Life: |
Go with the flow |
Time at work: |
I DO have a bed in my office! |
Pastimes of choice: |
Pursuing a hobby |
Time online: |
I'm online on weekdays only |
Take drugs: |
Never |
Family size: |
I've lost count |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Erotica; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Wealth |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Skinny dipping; Tattoo(s); Thrill seeking |
Work aspirations: |
Get promoted |
Religious attendance: |
Only on religious holidays |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Feelings about using Jazz FM Dating: |
Excited |
Honesty: |
Extremely |