In His Own Words
About him
Having emerged from a 29-year marriage slightly worse for wear 3 years ago, I am now ready to look for that crazy thing called love and give it another go!
I live in the beautiful Cumbrian countryside and go on long walks with my trusty sidekick, Lily, almost every day. I have also trekked more sunnier climbs in recent times, over the Amalfi coast and Comino de Santiago which was a fantastic experience. When I'm up for it, I try to go to the gym when I can, but my body is a bit battered from the rugby years and so I tend to take a less intense approach these days.
My weekends during the summer are busy with beekeeping and trying to stop the little buggers from swarming. My daughter comes to visit and helps out, mostly when it’s time for the honey harvest.....funny that! I am a biologist at heart and have always been interested in animals, nature and the countryside. Despite my rebellious and maverick tendencies, I have been lucky enough to forge a successful career in the animal health industry, and I work with a wonderful group of people who put up with me. Animal welfare is something that is really important to me.
I am very direct, which I recognise is not a good thing in some situations. It's just my way, I'm very honest, wear my heart on my sleeve and will call it as I see it. I have mellowed with age, but I do not have time for games, political manoeuvring or bullshit - life is too short.
I'm a foodie and enjoy going out for meals and cooking at home. I love going to live music events, my taste in music is erratic and all over the place to say the least, one minute I'm listening to the Concierto de Aranjuez and the next I'll be rocking to Placebo. I would describe myself as an extroverted - introvert. I'm happy to socialise but I am happy in my own company too and need time to retract once in a while to recharge the batteries.
Some interesting facts: I’ve played professional rugby, made a citizen’s arrest, rescued a dog and cat trapped in a house fire and performed as a clown at the Bayeaux Circus!
About his ideal match
And for those who have made it this far, I am not interested that you have been skydiving in your underwear, practice Feng shui or own 6 pairs of Louboutins. I am looking for a down to earth, exceptionally abnormal, honest and intelligent partner with a big heart and bucket loads of common sense. Someone who knows what she wants and what is important in life. Let me know if that is you! :)
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About him
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Brampton, Cumbria, England | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star sign: |
Scorpio | |
Height: |
5' 8" (173cm) | |
Body type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Ask me later | |
Hair colour: |
Greying | |
Eye colour: |
Hazel | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Let's see what happens; A long-term relationship | |
Have children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want children: |
No | |
Daily diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Postgraduate | |
Occupation: |
Ask me later | |
Income: |
Ask me later | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious |
About his ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 100 miles of postcode district CA6 (Carlisle) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age range: |
50 - 61 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
4' 7" (140cm) or shorter - 5' 8" (173cm) | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Blonde; Dark Blonde; Light Brown; Dark Brown; Auburn; Red; Black; Greying; Grey; White | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have children: |
No; Yes, not living with me | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily; Vegetarian | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home language: |
English | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Other |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about him
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Easygoing; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loyal; Optimistic; Philosophical; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Faithfulness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite colour: |
Purple |
Hair style: |
Short; Disappearing |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body hair: |
Average |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Dance / Disco; Electronic Dance Music; Pop / Top 40; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly |
Books: |
History; Non-fiction; Science / Technology; Self-help |
TV habits: |
I prefer listening to the radio |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; Sci-Fi; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Healthy living; Investing; Music; Politics; Reading |
Sport involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Football (Soccer); Rugby; Walking; Weight training |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; German; Italian; Pub Grub; Seafood |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work at home |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I'm an only child |
Family contact: |
I see them when I can |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'd consider it |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Pets (Have): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Like): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Exotic pet(s); Fish; Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Intelligence; Long hair |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
I'm non-practising |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Feelings about using Jazz FM Dating: |
Hopeful; Curious; Optimistic |
Honesty: |
Extremely |





