In Her Own Words
About her
Life is full and varied, and I genuinely love it that way. Weekends might find me on a clay shoot, out for a long walk, at a music event or in the kitchen trying something new – cooking is a real passion, though eating out comes a pretty close second, being a total foodie.
I'm sociable, creative, energetic and affectionate, and like to make the most of things. Art, history, nature, nice hotels, fast cars, boats and road trips all make me happy and I love having something to look forward to – whether that's a weekend away, a great restaurant or just good conversation over a long dinner. Often told I don’t look my age!
Kindness and thoughtfulness matter a lot to me and honesty is non-negotiable – I have zero patience for game playing.
Intelligence is a real draw. I'm a sapiophile through and through – there's nothing more attractive than a sharp, curious mind and the ability to hold a conversation that actually goes somewhere.
Tall, clever, witty, energetic and genuinely straightforward – if that sounds like you, I'd love to hear from you. And I don’t have children but have no objection if you do!
About her ideal match
He's tall – I'm not short, so that matters – and confident without needing to prove it.
Genuinely intelligent, curious and well-read, with the ability to hold a conversation that actually goes somewhere. Good manners and a decent sense of humour are vital.
Honest and straightforward – no games, no half-truths.
Emotionally secure and drama-free.
Quietly kind and thoughtful in the ways that actually count.
He enjoys the good things in life and has the energy to make the most of them. Sociable, well-travelled and present.
Ready for a real partnership with someone warm, sharp and full of life.
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About her
Country of origin: |
United Kingdom | |
Location: |
Abingdon (Marcham, Abingdon), Oxfordshire, England | |
Gender: |
Female | |
Age: |
63 | |
Star sign: |
Cancer | |
Height: |
5' 6" (168cm) | |
Body type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair colour: |
Blonde | |
Eye colour: |
Green | |
Relationship Status: |
Widowed | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Let's see what happens; A short-term relationship; A long-term relationship; Marriage; Something casual | |
Have children: |
No | |
Want children: |
Ask me later | |
Daily diet: |
Eat healthily | |
Smoking: |
Never | |
Drinking: |
Occasionally | |
Education: |
Further education | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home language: |
English | |
Other languages: |
French | |
Religion: |
Ask me later |
About her ideal match
Country of origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Within 60 miles of postcode district OX13 (Abingdon) | ||
Gender: |
Male | ||
Age range: |
49 - 69 | ||
Star sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
5' 10" (177cm) - 6' 11" (210cm) or taller | ||
Body type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Stocky | ||
Looks: |
Very Attractive; Above Average; Attractive | ||
Hair colour: |
Any | ||
Eye colour: |
Any | ||
Has a photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed; It's Complicated | ||
Have children: |
Any | ||
Want children: |
No | ||
Daily diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Never | ||
Drinking: |
Never; Occasionally; Several times a week | ||
Education: |
Any | ||
Occupation: |
Administrative / Secretarial; Arts / Music / Writing; Executive / Management; Financial services; Legal; Medical / Dental / Veterinary; Political / Government; Retired; Sales / Marketing; Self-employed; Teaching / Education / Training; Science / Engineering / Research; Public sector; Advertising / PR; Media; Consultancy / Design; HR / Recruitment; IT / Telecoms; Leisure / Tourism | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy | ||
Ethnicity: |
Asian; Indian; Latino/Hispanic; Middle Eastern; White/Caucasian; Other; Mixed | ||
Home language: |
Any | ||
Other languages: |
Any | ||
Religion: |
Agnostic; Atheist; Buddhist / Taoist; Christian / Catholic; Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Jewish; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More about her
Sense of humour: |
Dry |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The heart |
Party behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality traits: |
Adventurous; Ambitious; Confident; Daring; Faithful; Funny; Generous; Happy; Independent; Intelligent; Loving; Loyal; Optimistic; Outgoing; Realistic; Sensible; Stable; Thoughtful; Trustworthy |
Valued qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Forgiveness; Friendliness; Honesty; Humour; Kindness; Sexiness |
Fashion sense: |
Contemporary (I'm cool, but I don't need labels) |
Favourite clothing: |
My swimming trunks / bikini |
Hair style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Body art: |
I don't have any |
Date activities: |
A movie; A music concert; A picnic in a park; Attending a sporting event; Dinner at a restaurant; Going out dancing; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Going for a walk; Visiting a gallery; Going to a museum |
Music preferences: |
Alternative; Blues; Classical; Dance / Disco; Heavy Metal; Instrumental; Jazz; Latin; Punk; Rock |
Reading: |
I read books regularly; I read newspapers regularly |
Books: |
Crime; Fiction; History; Mystery; Non-fiction |
TV habits: |
I tend to watch news |
TV programmes: |
Action / Adventure; Cooking / Baking; Documentaries; Dramas; Educational; Motoring; Nature/Wildlife; News |
Movie frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Drama; Independent; Mystery |
Interests: |
Business news; Cooking; Gardening; Meditation; Music; Reading; The arts; Voluntary work |
Sport involvement: |
An active participant |
Sports: |
Aerobics; Canoeing; Cycling; Dance; Motorsport; Rugby; Shooting; Stand Up Paddleboarding; Walking; Weight training; Yoga |
Cooking: |
I love it! |
Food: |
Asian Fusion; Chinese; Fine Dining; French; Gastro Pub; Greek; Indian; Italian; Pub Grub; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
Other |
Pace of Life: |
Organised |
Time at work: |
I work part-time |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time online: |
I check in once a day |
Family size: |
I've got a brother |
Family contact: |
I see them as often as possible |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm flexible |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Dog(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Bird(s); Cat(s); Fish; Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Showing affection in public; Power; Skinny dipping; Thrill seeking |
Turn-offs: |
Body piercing(s); Long hair; Sarcasm; Tattoo(s) |
Work aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious attendance: |
Doesn't apply |
Dream home: |
On a beach |
Politics: |
Right of centre |
Retirement plans: |
Pursuing a sport or hobby |
Feelings about using Jazz FM Dating: |
Nervous |
Honesty: |
Very |